We are the best actors....

Was just wondering about how well we as human beings act... which is so very natural with no reharsals or practice....

Our real character or attitude or nature nobody knows... if there s someone who knows it thats "ourselves" only we know wat we like and wat we don't not even our parents know us as much as we kno about ourselves even though i have seen people showing off when asked about themselves by sayin " oh well.. my friends know me better.. i don't know much about myself bla bla" such fakies they are...

I observed a person for 24 hrs... and this is wat i found:

1) He wakes up late in the morning with absolutely no punctuality and discipline
but
He is exactly on time when it comes to meeting his gal friend for a date which was promised... so now will i assume him to a lazy bum since he gets up late and so dis organised or should i assume him to be a punctual soul just because he is on time to meet his gal or he is on time to the place where somebody is ready to do a favour for him...

2) He is so rude as a sibling to his brothers and sisters.. never listens to what they tell him or ask him.. so not bothered about them...
but
He is such a gentleman when it comes to his friends... his friends just love him the way he is.. so caring and concerned. never says "NO" to anythin...
so here should i assume tat he is an arrogant,non responsible moron or should i assume him to be the sweetest person i ve met ever???

3)He is a such a gud son at home to his parents.. does watever he is asked to.. helps his mum in different petty tasks which he is asked to and helps out his dad with some petty official work...
but
In the class he is so very disorganized.. never completes his work on time.. ends up getting thrown out of the class for being so indisciplined...
and here should i feel he is a very punctual and an obedient person or an indisciplined crook??

These were just some instances though there are so many to quote..

So i really wonder when people say " oh u know what... he is so short tempered at times.." or " oh u can never predict his behaviour" etc.. How can we comment on someone else when we ourselves may at times be worse than that..

In a day that person plays a role of a :
1)A Son (to his father and mother whic are different)
2)A sibling
3)A student
4)A friend
5)A boy friend(whic is so diff from just a friend)
6)An enemy
7)An advisor( as if he is very perfect )
8)A sinner
9)A helper
10)A customer
11)A seller ( when he sells his ideas )
12)A manupulator( so gud at it)
13)A broker ( i don't mean a pimp ;) )

well the list goes on... and i noticed that in every other character, he is not the same.. and the best part is the receiver of a particular character never knows that he has a diff side too... even if they know, its just an assumption they make...its because peeople often do not believe someone to be very sweet as the general attitude never permits human beings to think gud and positive untill its firmly proven the otherwise...

Why arnt we universal?? why arnt we the same with al?? discrimination begins right from us.. what rights do we have to complain about the discrimination in the society as a whole??

but i feel this is how the society works and this is how human mind is moulded.... We all are after all forms of nature and nature may b wants some joy and recreation watchin us behave so different at different times..
Its so very interestin to read general human psychology..." we are indeed unique "..

Girls in today's world...

A young lady is giving directions to her new boyfriend to get to her apartment.

She says: ''You come to the front door of the apartment complex where I live and look for apartment 14A, and with your elbow push button 14A. Come inside and you'll find the elevator on the right. With your elbow hit 14.
When you get out of the elevator you'll find my apartment on the left. With your elbow, hit my doorbell and I'll open the door for you''

The boyfriend says: ''Dear, that sounds very easy to find, but why am I hitting all these buttons with my elbow?''

"Oh my God!! You're not coming empty-handed, are you?'

Something which i wanted to share... heard one of my very experienced friend telling this... :P

"good times fly.. bad times crawl"

ISnt it true that gud times jus fly and bad times crawl???
Thats how it has always been with me... But its sucha sad and bad thing to happen and the worse is when i realised that "oh this is how its happening" :( sob...
The day something bad happens such as say a fight with a close friend or break up with our partner or any such bad day seems to move really slow.. but on the other hand an amazing day with our close and beloved ones or a kickass trip wit friends etc. such days jus seem to fly off... at the end of sucha day we feel "oh the day is over so soon.. i feel as if the day jus bugun and its already over.. :("

But a sad time is so very prolonging and never ending... the day seems to b an year the minutes seem to be hours...
IS this naturally designed this way so that we get adjusted to problems in our lives or is life itself pessimistic and envious about the good times people have?? hmmm i ve no clue why so..

The finest days and times i ve ever had is wit my friends and one very close friend in particular wit whom i ve shared all possible emotions that human beings inherit... and time just flies when im wit her.. both of us suddenly look at the time and realise oh its more than 3 hrs now and only afta we look at the time we then also realise that it has got so dark ... we gotta rush home.. we are late...
and the times when i ve fought wit my beloved ones time has jus moved very slow... i really don't understand why iss it so??

can somebody please answer the question please?? or is it only me who is feeling this way??!! anyways who cares as long as im enjoying it.. short or long.. :) :)

People come,people go........

Sometimes all you have to do is think about someone and they show up. Unfortunately it’s usually not the someone you had hoped for. People fly in and out of our lives at rapid speeds coming and going like the wind. Some stay a year, some a week, some long enough to read this post. Then there are the ones that are in it for the long haul. The ones who stick by you and not only help you sort your baggage but help carry the load as well. What makes someone stay in our lives? How do we have the power to keep them and is everything just up to chance or are we masters of our own fate’s?

As much as we may wish it weren’t so, a plain fact of human relationships is this: People come and people go. Someone that we have loved with all of our hearts one day can, quite literally, vanish from our lives the next. Not necessarily from death.. Sometimes simple circumstance can take a best friend, a lover or a partner right out of your hands, never to be seen again...That’s sad. But that’s life..:(

MIssing someone!!!

To miss someone is sometimes mysterious. You miss the person and you don’t know why. To some, it indicates that the person means something to them, and they won’t know about it until the person is not around. They have that strange longing feeling to see the person around again.

Absence Makes The Heart Grow Fonder.. so the saying goes. How? When the person is gone for a while, you start to have that feeling, “How I wish she was here”. When you miss someone, you long for his/her presence. The next time the person shows up, you would for sure appreciate it much more and you might even let the person know how empty you feel when he/she’s not around. In this case, Yes, absence DOES make the heart grow fonder.

Maybe some even use it to TEST how much the person means to them by trying to be apart from the person for a period of time. Say, for 1 month. “If I can’t stand this one month being apart from her, that means I can’t live without her.” What about that? Speaking of “being apart temporarily” it reminds me of the needs to “take holidays” from each other. Heard of it before? Ouch, you must! Couples Need Holidays. lolzzzzzz

To miss someone is a feeling that tells us that no matter how selfish we are, we are just born to have other people’s company... that we need to have people around us, especially those who mean someone to us. It is also another test that yes, you’re a normal human being and if you miss someone, nothing much to worry though, the feeling just come and go but IF you really can’t stand it, Maybe you can do this... The next time the person comes again, tell the person how much emptiness you feel when he/she’s not around.. at least let the person know. Who knows, maybe he/she feels the same way too and again, Who Knows... because of your little confession, both of you don’t have to miss each other anymore. You know what I mean.

I ve been missin someone since last 20 odd days.. and this is how i ve been feeling.. :(..

Dear friend please come back... somebody is missing u very badly here..

living the future!!!!!

I wonder how would it be to live the future??!!! amazing phenomenon to imagine about... Alll of us have this very tendency to dream dream and dream away to glory!!! and most of the times we often tend to think about a particular thing which wud actually make us feel really gud and the feeling of goodness once acheived melts down lik how a guys heart melts for a gal.. hehe ... interesting.... acc 2 me they take place in stages...

The first stage, when u actually think of wat may happen? wats gonna happen?? how is it gonna b?? so "THNKING"

The second stage, when ideas linger in our minds filled wit loads and loads of positive energy and bubbling zest. so that is "DREAMING"

The third stage is the stage wher the process of realisation tkes place and we start thinkin about all possible hurdles to acheive the goals whic we wud ve dreamt.so "DISAPPOINTMENT" and tas coz we start feelin oh can i do it or cant i do it... so basically nt a sure feeling...

And the last stage is well, we come out of the future in whic we were living and realise that oh i ve to do ths i ve 2 do that and we start living the present.. and thats wat prevents us from dreaming.. that means its basically preventing us from moving forward....

An individual in ths modern world is materialistically moving at a rapid rate but otherwise he hasnt realised that he is actually moving backward day by day... and thats wat the situation demands... God do save us!!!! Do give us the chance to do something of ourselves with no constraints and dear god i promise we will neva innovate or invent something that would be a scum in the society... (provided if young minds lik me are lik me.. ;) )

Life is like sand. . .

I think this month of every year is the gyaan time for me.... all possible thoughts are running through my mind... thoughts which make sense whic dont make sense etc... I have started too see them even in my dreams.. every night i see a loong dream and co incidently even the dream conveying the same message to me...

I just realized that life is actually like a handful of sand... where the sand in our hand are the different people and various events we come across.... and if we notice sand when in our hands if crushed harder the more it tends to rush out through the corners and and the ends of our hands... same applies to our life... the more we feel like getting something the more desperate we get to achieve our goals the quicker the go away.. i dont mean we should'nt ve any wants or so.. but shudnt expect too much from anythin and shudnt get desp. 4 anythin...

same applies to the people.. the more we try to rub on with them the more they start feeling un comfortable and they tend to push off ... Actually the urge to get somethin at any cost is a positive trait in someone but then life doesnt accept it... it wants us to be patient about each and everythin...

Therefore the sand in hand must just be held safely in our hands in such a way that they are in good contact with our body and do not get away too... instead of crushing them and getting them too close and eventually loosing them ... True!!!! " Life is like sand in hand".... at the same time even when held in hand the fingers of our hand should be close to each other... These are some key to be happy in life rather to just have a contented life...