It reeli hurts when i listen to this story of a boy and a gal who happen to be my good friends.. It goes lik this....
The guy is was a big time flirt untill the day he got to kno that gal inside out... the guy had no seriousness in his life. He was just into tapping gals, flirtin going out, n very soon starts loosing intrest in tat gal n finally ends up fighting and ending that particular relationship.. All his friends think he is the biggest flirt ever they have seen and believe in the fact that they are never gonna witness some1 lik him ever in their lifetime..
But he is no more a flirt.. i kno him really well. he has just changed a lottt.. lot is nt the word thats appropriate.. he has jus taken a 360 degree turn in his life.. he thinks all optimistic.. doesnt lech at all possible gals and i was shocked to know that he has 4got how to flirt.. he feels shy to go and talk to any random gal. i duno if he feels shy or doesnt feel comfy but he no more does whic surprises me..
The gal and the guy became reeli gud n close friends.. They used to spend a lot of time hanging arnd at all possible places.. and my friend says he has neva met a gal lik her.. The kinda explanation he gave abt her made me feel as if i was in the heaven for a while.. he might have exaggerated a bit but however it was it made even me feel gud listening to it. n surprised me making me think "do pple lik tat exist??".
And after tellin everythin 2 me he says tat she is just his friend n nothin more thn tat .. i was pretty shocked 2 hear tat sentence. coz i thot they both were goin arnd.. but no..
It took me by surprise and i felt its reeli hard to have a relationship of tat sort.. Days went by and he everyday told me wat happened tat day n he used 2 b reeli exited tellin me all that and i dint ve any othr choice but to listen... The story wasnt all that dry though.. :)
And now coming to the climax of the whole story.. Time has come for them to depart. Time has arrived for him to no longer stay close and together with her.. He is planning to soon leave the city for good. i ve no problems with tat but 1 thing tat bothers me is will he continue being lik how he is right now?? or will he get back to the way he was which i neva liked.. I dont want my best friend to change.. as the saying goes that some1 will come in our lives to influence our character and who change us for gud.. and for him, unknowingly that gal has been the source of change... which i doubt if he realized it..
So keeping all these factors in mind its very hard for me to see the shadow of that angel going off whic shined so bright on him and injected all possible positive energy into him... I hope he is able to get adapted as soon as possible to the change and is able to get over the hangover of it...
I cant see him hurt n cant see him in a pain... i want some or the other form of energy to take over n keep a check on his life and lifestyle coz i kno him very well.. he cant ve control on himself without a genuine external force acting on him even though he seems to b controlled and matured outside..
i pray to god that he is soon able to get over the pain n is able to continue the way he is and not he was... i dont want him 2 b a flirt and a person who has no concern 4 himself n others.. who is just living 4 the heck of it...
It just feels reeli great to see a transition of this sort in any person for that matter... i dont know how 2 thank that gal for standing beside him and being the agent of change in him.. may all her dreams get fulfiled .. and i feel she will get watevr she wants and urges for.. and i very strongly feel she will get wat she wants coz, i have never seen someone who is good to all and all being good to that someone ever having a miserable life History proves that.. And if someone end s up being rude and bad to her than i wudnt consider him to be a human being... People lik the would be like speck of dust to her..
Even problems will bring happiness in her and she will reach heights in whichever feild she is in..
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hey man, i know, its been such a long time, what happen to ya? anw, i'm fine, im alright, dont worry :)
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