A Tribute....

All of us meet various different people in different stages of our lives at different places.even i have met a lot of people who have left evident imprints. At this very moment i can think of my few MA friends who have been a great moral support to me in my ups and downs. They dint do anything abnormal for me to feel so special about them. May be they did it in the simplest possible way that makes me cherish them and feel happy and good to have met them in my life. This is not a mere good bye to them coz friends are supposed to be forever IF they intend to. I wish the three people whom i felt are very special and whom i love the most stay in touch forever with me to once again make things special in the most simplest way.

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One of the most down to earth person i have met in my life. I still remember the first time i saw her enter the class. Looked so sophisticated, implicit, show off etc etc.. all qualities revolved around them. And to a good period of time i thought the qualities which i had associated with her were right to a great extent.I remember the day i took her and some of my classmates to krishna sagar when they could'nt even walk from the college campus to KS. But the opinion totally changed when the whole class went fa her birthday party. She was full of life,zest,zeal..... Well i do not kno if it was the effect of the alcohol or what, but all my opinions about her totally changed. Who ever said it, said it right that alcohol brings people closer. it removes social barriers.It was her Bay party that brought the whole class closer than it was. People say one cant be perfect and completely balanced in life.. but ads proved it wrong by being really balanced in her thoughts and actions. a great personality to have met in my life indeed.. :) A great motivator and an optimist.someone who can make anybody feel good with her innocent and genuine care and affection. But u gotta be a gud person. she very well knows how to be otherwise with people who are otherwise.. ;P

Arch..
Hmmm... Someone whose age i still do not believe. So tender and kind by heart and so matured smart n polished by attitude.The first day when she told to the whole class about herself,i looked at her and wondered- she must be so amazingly talented. I should say my prediction was not at all wrong. I have never seen someone sleep so much and still pull it off in the tests and exams. She was really great in making me feel comfortable by saying " all day i was sleeping, i still haven't touched it". This is what she always used to say before exams and i start feeling good by thinking there is someone to give me company! Sleeps apart, Someone who has always given an adultly care and affection and also someone who has come down to my age and never made any of us feel that she was pretty elder to us. The unforgettable moment which i have shared with her was at YD when me ads aks and wish were waiting for our dosas and the entertainment she gave us there made my LMAO after really long and when i needed it the most. I recalled how to laugh and cherish after her deliberate or not so deliberate act of entertainment. :P. I owe her a treat for that. in fact all four of us owe.

Aks..
Oh!! a very very sober and discreet character i have ever met.Never knew what exactly he wants to become and what exactly he wants to be.Only HE alone knows it perhaps. Hardly has a sound sleep unlike all other of us. And wakes up at 3 am sleep wit just a finger touch on him. Sometimes very happy Sometimes very quite, never really could understand him. But have understood enough essential things to identify himself as what he is. Someone who entered our class little late after the college started with a book in his hand which read "FREAKONOMICS" really do not know why he used to carry it to the class when he hardly used to read it. later he stopped bringing it though may be after realising that i was not going to work. lol :P.But he is someone who has helped in me in all possible ways he could whenever i needed help of any sort.Dissertation times cannot be forgotten when he helped me out so much with mine. Remember times when i have seen the dusk setting in and dawn beginning in his house. Will miss him and his house a lot.

The three people will never be forgotten in my life. I shall always remember and cherish the sandwich shop chitchats every afternoon, and sudden plans of nandhini and ice and spice in the afternoon after class. Their presence have always made me feel good.They have always supported me for the right and discouraged me for the wrong directly or indirectly. It isnt a deliberate effort they put but i was lucky enough to have them in my life the way they are ,which is really utopian and im sure has changed me in many aspects without my own notice. May be not in my actions but definitely in thoughts. for example, I now know many more pubs and good food joints, i now know many more english songs than i knew before and also i know how to speak better english.. :) ;) .. its a tribute im paying for my dear friends who have always been there with me during the happy and sorrow times. Wish they would keep in touch and sprinkle their positive vibes on me which are so very genuine!!!

Do we do what we say?

The best example that we can give for a living being that is so good at committing itself for somethin and doing just the opposite that the person who has committed to do are The human beings....
Innumerable promises and assurances but the number actually rendered cannot even be counted just because usually there isnt a one... we are such poor followers of wat we say..
Why do we even say then?? why do we even talk??? what rights do we have to comment on the actions of someone else when we ourselves are so very weak on which we comment and on which we can comment till the existence of time....
very bad!!!!
when are we gonna evolve? when are we gonna grow up? when are we gonna learn? and wen r we gonna live?? am i evolved just coz i ve written this or are you evolved coz u just read this?? and wher can i find the answers fa these questons!!!!!

What kind of a society am i living in???

I wonder if the society im living in, is the right one?!! i see and experience so many things that makes me wonder if this is the way society actually functions?? is it the right way? can something be done?is it worth to live in a society like this? can i do or can we the youth do something about it to bring a radical change?? or are we just fit for just blogging off in our blogger sites and end up living in the same society which has so many casualties!!

The day before was wandering in the streets of brigade road to buy something and something i saw which stopped my walk and i just could not walk for a few seconds even after it hap pend....
A young boy like me was walking on the foot path just like me and an eunuch(so called trans genders) asked fa alms and poor guy instead of chasing off was actually gettin his wallet out to give alms.. and he did not have any change and had only notes of 100... he said sorry i don't have but the eunuch started touching the boy at weird places and started harassing him and just snatched the 100 rupees note and pushed off....

Man!! so much attitude even while begging??

Yesterday was on my way back from college and saw a couple on an activa clash with a bicyclist. both the parties fell royally and the poor guy on the cycle started bleeding. i initially jus stopped my bike since the activa rolled and came in the way of my bike and thank god i dint fall.. i parked my bike and was helping them along with many passer bys... the cycle guy was crying so badly and no rickshaw guy was ready to take him. they saw his condition and immediately said NO... but they never left stood at a corner and were watching him suffer.. i luckily had some sugar sachets in my bag since i had been to coffee day and ve this bad habit of flicking sachets of sugar and ketchup dunno why.. so i got that out and poured 3 packets of them on the wound and then somebody came whom he knew and he took care of him.

This way i see numerous incidents where people are just not worried about others. Human beings are selfish and so they have to be to survive.. but selfish to an extent that they can see someone die but can never help the one dying?? I feel we are no more so called SOCIAL animals... we slowly inching towards the stage when we were all animals..

Paying off problems.....

Just realised that every single individual in this world is dissolved in an ocean of problems.... this hard fact was never fact to me untill im myself experiencing it... the feeling wasnt too good for me. took some time and then realised that my merely living this way im just wasting my days of life!!!!
who doesnt have problems in this world in their lives?? For some big problems may b small and fa some the other way... but problems are problems anyways... some may panic for a very small one and some may boldly just accept it as a part of life...

But i feel, Problems are only Problems when we define them as such. They are really learning events. As the saying goes...If it doesn't kill you , then it can only make you stronger. Whenever we encounter a problem we should try to look at it indifferently. No matter how bad it may be. When setting goals or designing a house, a blue print, a plan is needed. The same applies to Problems. We need a plan.

By just thinking about somethin bad that happened just to feel bad, is not gonna do any good.. we would merely just be wastin a day of our life where we could have done somethin productive....

Probably one of the most common and promising strategies used to avoid problems is just to ignore them. We have an amazing ability to blind ourselves to the issues in our lives. If we don’t see and acknowledge the problems, then they simply don’t exist. It is almost a miracle at how effective this technique can be.
It may not not sound practical but this surely logical... and things whic make good logic eventually end up being practical too!!!!

I certainly have problems that I’d like to avoid. Problems are hurtful, distracting and agitating. Why wouldn’t I want to get as far away from them as possible?

That feeling you get when a big crisis pops up is sickening. It can feel like you went bungee jumping without a rope.
That’s why I recently set out to find the most used strategies for running away from problems. I wanted to uncover some things I could try. Fortunately, it wasn’t as hard as I thought it would be to find popular tactics. It seems that I’m not alone in wanting to avoid problems. i have soo much comapany!!!!
IM NOT ALONE!!!! IM NOT ALONE!!! AND IM ALIVE!!!! PHYSICALLY MENTALLY AND SPIRITUALLY!!!!! IM JUST NOT LIVING... IM ALIVE!!! IM ALIVE!!!!

Anger Aftermath!!!!!!

Anger is an emotion. It is a reaction to a real or perceived threat. Our natural response to this emotion is rage. Physiologically, our heart rate speeds up. We may feel our cheeks become flushed and jaws clench. Some of us respond to the feeling of anger by slamming doors, confronting the person who we perceive to have caused our anger, or in this age of speedy computer technology, firing off an angry email. Those who easily fly off the handle are usually aware of this tendency and should take steps to react differently to adverse situations.

It is no surprise that anger can get out of hand. Anger blinds us to all but the focus of that anger. Ever heard the expression "I was so mad, I couldn't see straight." We must learn to use the energy created by our anger in a positive way. Rather that letting it get the best of us, we can channel our anger to make our needs known. That means turning our anger into assertion, not aggression.

Kids during the summer....

Its the summer time and me again busy with the summer camps.... This is the only period when i like kids.. well i think its because i ve to?? will be chucked out if i dont like them.. so i eventually start liking them genuinely when i pretend to like them...

And one of my student who is 7 years of age happens to be my fav. student of all since she is very quite,obedient and well not troublesome at all... very cute.. she came upto my today and asked if she could leave early today.... i asked her why?? though i felt good that "ah let them all push off like this" .. then she replied to my question saying she is not feeling well... i asked her why again.. then she said she is feeling very tired!!!!! huh?! tired doing wat?? then i asked her wat she does at home... this is wat she said...
" sir mornin 9 30 to 10 30 i come here...
10 30 to 12 i go for swimming classes...
and then 1 to 3 i go for drawing classes.. then my mum asks me to go sleep till 4... and 4 30 to 6 30 i ve dance classes. and my dad picks me up from there at 7 and i ve my dinner watch pogo and sleep off like that"

phew i heard it scratched my head and wondered if she is gonna take up atleast one of them seriously?? damn these parents man.. is it coz their parents r dumb enuf to believe tat their kids can be master of all or is it just to show off and tell their counterparts what all their do?? and the sad part is once the schools reopen all tat the child is allowed to do is "STUDY"... thats it.. all mommies and dadys.. ah no not daddys... they are gud.. :P all u mommies please remember that they are kids... not machines..!!!!!!

Every single thing matters.....

Everything we do will alter, in some way, our life…and the lives of others.

How does that settle with you?

This thought floats around in my brain often. How seemingly tiny things can have such deep consequences. Think about this. I oversleep. Because of that, I leave the house in a rush. Because I am rushed, I am not paying attention to the car in front of me. I have an accident. Now I have just altered not only my own life, but also the life of the person in front of me. And had I left the house just ten seconds earlier, or ten seconds later…the consequences would have been completely different.

And that's just only one small example.

There are no little things.

Point 1: We cannot control everything. Some things will happen just because we are where we are, doing what we are doing.

Point 2: If we accept the idea that all of our actions, no matter how small or big, have a far-reaching impact, then does that change at all how we live our life? While we cannot control exactly what will become because of our actions, we can still control the actions we put out into the universe.

What if…

What if we based even just a bit more of the things we do…the little things, the things we don't even think about…what if we based them on more awareness?

Would that change anything?

Perhaps you question, how can more awareness change anything for some of these mundane things…pouring that cup of coffee in the morning, brushing your teeth, taking the dog for a walk, smiling… They seem so simple, perhaps even routine. Think about it, though, as you perhaps…smile. What if that smile invites someone "in"….someone to come up to you who might not otherwise have done that. And what if a wonderful friendship begins because of that. All from a smile…. (or any of our actions, for that matter)

There are no little things.

In this moment you are making a choice of either acceptin what i ve written or not...
If the ones reading this accepts he is gonna be a winner in life and the others the otherwise.... ;) :P So therefore every single thing matters in our lives.. small or big or medium or whatever...