Well i dunno why am i thinking a lot nowadays .. anyways its good in a way u see... :) Well i just felt how important it is for an individual to interact with the right individual... its a little confusing juncture i shud say... I strongly feel that our outlook towards life,our attitude towards life is very much dependent on the kind of people we interact and mingle with.. I have heard some sadhus and some wise men in this world saying that the kind of attitude your friend wears will soon be your outfit... hehe true ... very much..
Well its pretty obvious that the kinda person we go around or hang around with does have an impact on our outlook too.. This im saying of personal experience with rock solid proof and evidence about how true my statement is... When i was in my 10th standard class the whole class was full of nerds and future intellects i should say.. and i was the odd one out with no aspirations of becoming an intellect.. ;) and the students there were ONLY into studies and nothing els nothin else at all..
I mean there was absolutely no socializing element present in them.. and a stay of one whole year with them made me too one of those kinds with just studies and no social life at all.. everytime exam tensions,question paper patterns and yea how can i forget the competition i mean the scoring competition .. ooooff come on people wat are ya gonna achieve by scoring centum ?? a good placement at some IT company where they are just gonna make you toil day and night because you are good at only studies.. thats wat u have learnt... wat else have you people learnt?? do you all kno how to get along with people whom are completely new to within minutes?? well anyways i was stuck there for two years and well the day i left that school i felt as if im out after spending my 14 years of imprisonment that too not in a normal city jail but the cellular jail at the Andaman.. pheww!!!! So beig with people like them even i became one like them.. but on the contrary when i shifted to commerce in a different school the ambiance was all together a diff. one.. the students there were full of bubbling energy and zest... i mean it was just perfect for someone like me.. all my true colours and traits came out and that is socialize!!!!!!!!
Wel i personally feel every individual generates positive and negative vibrations and whic unknowingly gives it out... A positive energy body when mingles with a negative becomes a negative coz its always negative thats more stronger in this world according to me... gone are those days of positive and optimistic thoughts.. in fact there were never those kinda days in the history... So i just realized at the end of the day about how choosy we gotta be when it comes to friends or the person we gonna have intimate relations with... because after all you can be happy only if the people around you are happy... al of us pray for our own well being and bliss but have we ever thought that without the person beside us being happy how the hell can we be happy???!!!
ever since the day i realized this big time fact i pray for well being of my frnds too!!!!!! imagine if everyone around us are all sorrow and sad due to some problem or the other?? can we be happy even by chance??? nah... so just felt about the significance of having a good company whic eventually will lead to a positive outlook towards life and can tackle and overcome any kinda life causalities... A good company will do wonders in an individuals life.. and we should see to it that even if someone around us isnt feeling all that great we should some or the other way make him feel good because once again we are inhaling the oxygen from the same atmosphere where he has exhaled... pheww that was a little too much but i feel that made sense...
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