Human emotions!!!!!!

its not a good one but then its not a dead end to our lives... I have seen people who start drinking excessively, i have seen people Man i was just reading the newspaper the other day and after reading this article my heart just skipped a beat... It said how a husband killed his own wife just because he loved someone else and dint want his actual wife to know that.... Pheww well i wont say i have never come across a news like that but then i don't know why this just gave a minor jerk to my mind and made it work a little bit and "think"(Wel something which my mind is not used to at all.. ;)) And so did i obey to the orders of my brain and started thinkin and almost lost thinking over and over again and again.... and i just felt its the over whelming amount of human emotions whic is no doubt very important to mankind but thats something which people are getting too much of it nowadays... God is getting a little too lenient in that particular field and being little generous in giving them in bulk... human emotions according to me ARE of course important for any individual for that matter.. without emotions i don't think we can call ourselves as human beings... we become in human without the in built emotions... But these emotions should be used very wisely and carefully at the right places and the right time... Which according to me we as human beings have not been and being able to master and which we ought to... For instance we meet our relatives after a really long time, express your emotions because the emotion at that point of time is completely harmless... It adds on life to the whole occasion.. But exessive usage of emotions during a death in a family or during any negative thing or event that has taken place in and around us leads to a negative effect.. Yes we should express and share our emotions but not at the cost of loosing it all... Thats where we as human beings lag... we all are just too bad in accepting failures... WHY????? why is that so.. Its just an event like any other event.. of coursecommitting suicides and i ave heard people killing someone else etc etc... wel its all because of the excessive amount of emotions which all of us possess and fail to use it appropriately... Well i have seen people giving up their whole life and loosing all their hopes just because of a small love failure... I mean why use so much of emotion to it.. Yes i agree emotions should be there in a human being but not to that an extent that instead of us having control over our emotions it starts taking control of us.... that's where starts the downfall of an individual... so i would like to say that use emotions at occasions and places where if its gonna get positive and good vibes in one own self and just forget emotions at occasions where the use of emotion is gonna get a negative result... Life is just too short... Hope we as human beings end up spending our lives with full of positive thoughts and attitude which will bring in lots of those good emotions which can do only good to us and will let us explore all the good corners of life and never ever takes us or never will make us witness which is somethin bad... I doubt if this ideology will work in a macro level but then micro level certainly YES!!!!! after all once human beings are very selfish and are supposed to be if they are qualified to be called as normal human beings... ;)