Perception differs.....

Well i was just going through one of this gal's blog wher she has completely blasted the shit out of a guy who is actually trying to change the way he used to live,the way he used to behave,the way he used think etc... many people looked at the change in a very positive way,i should say "many" ... His frinds were kinda surprised about it though it was hard to believe for them... Some people just look at someone's appearance and behaviour in a very naive manner and write them off... whic according to me is not a trait which a wise human being should be having and if has should be trying to get rid of it as soon as possible... But coming back to the guy.. he is lucky enuf to have good friends beside, behind and after him to support him in a positive way.. which i feel is imp..

The kinda company ur in reflects the kinda person ur...
And my poor friend has never been rude to people who have been rude to him.....
But then cant blame the ones who think the other way.. I feel its every human being's right to think wat he or she feels about someone... "Freedom of thought expression" .. (Well lil bit of pol. science ther as i had tat stupid subject in my 1st year :))... But expression not at the cost of someone else's feelings... And its also very important for the person who is being pulled down to be strong enough by not loosing his cool and not feeling bad at such negative perceptions... take the positive and send the negative with love and pleasure.. coz i dont think positive has any value without negative... and i feel we as human beings should once again be able to control our emotions towards our loved ones and try to find out what exactly the matter is and then jump into watever he or she wants..

i mean an un biased outlook at various different things..... Conclusion should be the last thing that a human being should ever do... coz i feel falling into a conclusion after a long time experiment if proved wrong then it would be a very painful feeling for the one who has carried out the experiment....
Pheww!!!!! we as human beings have soo much to learn man... i doubt if i can learn even 1 % of it but im trying, im trying.. and im pleased and happy that im trying.!!!!