How narrow minded can people get....

I always think people have evolved a lot.. if not the rural people atleast the urbanites have evolved.. but no now i realize human beings are after all human beings.. it makes no difference if he or she is an urbanite or not.. Diff only in the art of disguise can be seen otherwise both are the same when it comes to their attitude and thoughts....

Why don't people think the way which is positive when they are not sure of what the reality is... Is it that they do it wantedly by just looking at the negative way??? do we aquire any pleasure in lookin at the darker side thn the brighter??? i ve no clue..

I always find people thinkin in the most nagative way as they can even though they talk as if their minds are the broadest of all.. but the inner feeling is just the opposite..
This attitude is predominantly found in felid of relationships between a boy friend and a gal friend... between one friend n another... between a husband and a wife.. literaly in all possible relationships that people share with one another...
If the husband comes late from office the wife starts thinkin only things which are negative.. even if she doesnt completely think only the negative, that is the 1st way she wud think and then changes her attitude..
If the guy hasnt been answering his gal frnds cal n if it has been busy thn start thinkin who is he talkin to?? is he dating some1 els??
If the student comes late to class teacher thinks, he has been perinially running behind some gal or a guy an is nt at all into studies when may b the actuality would be tat the poor student would ve met with an accident...

Why arnt pple lettin positive thoughts enter the mind FIRST???? Then start think about the diff other probables?? why always negative? i dunno if the feel comfy in thinkin so... or may b they ve got habituated in thinkin so...

The best is when people start thinkin about a guy n a gal just talkin to each other as gud close friends.. oh my god their horizons are just too far when they think about the guy an the gal and their relationship... I don understand why people are so narrow minded n don't even realize wat they are doing is wrong and even if they do they are not ready to change their attitude..
Even with the improved health facilities i feel the lifespan of people would come down due to attitude lik this...