Thursday, July 30, 2009

The strength of silence!!!!

I ve slowly started realising the value of silence !!! silence nt as an action but as a weapon!!! Silence can do wonders in a person's life..

There happened an incident where i caught up wit some of my old friends for a drink and then arose a topic about football and i reeli suck at it... i ve absoluutely no clue about neither the teams nor the players and these guys wre fully submerged into a topic which im completely un familiar to.. And i neva opened my mouth .. neva uttered a word about it... but smartly kept on nodding my head but neva spoke.. and these guys took it fa granted tat i kno eveythin about it...

So then afta couple of events lik tat realised tat silence is a great weapon, and slowly i ve started feeling tat a great companion too.... silence is somethin tat gives u company even if ur left all alone... the enchanting creative thoughts, and i ve been experiencing some weird thought process takin place inside me when im silet which im usually not... now im confused about making the choice between staying silent and sacrifice all the fun when i talk or talk and ve the kind of fun i usually have and have been having throughout my life...

i have also noticed that people often get confused when someone is silent.. ofcourse im talkin about people who r smart enough to obseerve activities arnd thm and about those who are self centred and botherd only about their lives.... And its gud to have an identity lik tat when people dont reeli understand what kinda person u reeli are beneath?? is he a kind of person he looks lik or is he some1 lik he does'nt look lik haan??

And this weapon is at its best if used wen a person has gone mad yelling at u... aaah the essence of silence is at its peak at this kind of situation... u can see the anger just melting down lik butter if we can manage to control our ego jus fa a short while.. but sadly most of us are victims and badly infected by this particular element... EGO..

But i wudnt say silence is an universal weapon!!! nt at all.. conversations are very important in our lives.. esp wit sweet chicks.. :) but then this weapon even if nt universal can b used to a great extent to reach great heights in our lives..

"but i feel being silent is very difficult" how self contradicting......


2 comments:

Anonymous said...

:( i have no idea why. because that blog is where i type my most deepes thoughts that none of my friends know. but it seems tht only u know, haha. i'm alright, i've talked to my dad. and im trying my hardest to get through school. :) unless you wanna see my other blog, its a lil more colourful :)

chital_phenomenal said...

interesting!! i personally feel we all need silence in ourlives to reach the inner most of ourselves.. drowning ourselves in talking ALWAYS is just not the way... silence ampliflies your thoughts... ur blog is something to think about!! good one...