The strength of silence!!!!

I ve slowly started realising the value of silence !!! silence nt as an action but as a weapon!!! Silence can do wonders in a person's life..

There happened an incident where i caught up wit some of my old friends for a drink and then arose a topic about football and i reeli suck at it... i ve absoluutely no clue about neither the teams nor the players and these guys wre fully submerged into a topic which im completely un familiar to.. And i neva opened my mouth .. neva uttered a word about it... but smartly kept on nodding my head but neva spoke.. and these guys took it fa granted tat i kno eveythin about it...

So then afta couple of events lik tat realised tat silence is a great weapon, and slowly i ve started feeling tat a great companion too.... silence is somethin tat gives u company even if ur left all alone... the enchanting creative thoughts, and i ve been experiencing some weird thought process takin place inside me when im silet which im usually not... now im confused about making the choice between staying silent and sacrifice all the fun when i talk or talk and ve the kind of fun i usually have and have been having throughout my life...

i have also noticed that people often get confused when someone is silent.. ofcourse im talkin about people who r smart enough to obseerve activities arnd thm and about those who are self centred and botherd only about their lives.... And its gud to have an identity lik tat when people dont reeli understand what kinda person u reeli are beneath?? is he a kind of person he looks lik or is he some1 lik he does'nt look lik haan??

And this weapon is at its best if used wen a person has gone mad yelling at u... aaah the essence of silence is at its peak at this kind of situation... u can see the anger just melting down lik butter if we can manage to control our ego jus fa a short while.. but sadly most of us are victims and badly infected by this particular element... EGO..

But i wudnt say silence is an universal weapon!!! nt at all.. conversations are very important in our lives.. esp wit sweet chicks.. :) but then this weapon even if nt universal can b used to a great extent to reach great heights in our lives..

"but i feel being silent is very difficult" how self contradicting......

Condition at the sub saharan africa.......

Well ever since i made my country profile presentation about the sub Saharan country"Sierra Leone" as an international relations assignment i have picked up a flair towards those African countries which are struggling to prosper in almost all possible Fields.. such as economic social political etc...

Though i did my presentation about Sierra Leone for the sake of my internal marks then, now all of a sudden I'm into full time digging facts and figures from various sources of information about the sub Saharan African countries.. Their profile, their history the civil wars that have taken place in the continent etc..

Its so very painful to know how the west exploits these third world countries for money and cheap labour..

I want to get educated well in this particular Field and go free the continent from its shackles of slavery and exploitation.... i know its a dream beyond to be dreamt of.. but nothing wrong in dreaming big.. that's wat my gut feeling says as of now.. but who knows.. nature is so powerful and influential that one day it may turn me too into a world level "capitalist"???? have to wait and watch.. :))

Whats peace of mind???

Why Does our mind constantly run from one thought to another, always restless, never calming down or getting still for a moment?Do worries, anxieties or fears occupy our mind, preventing inner peace and happiness? Do we always worry and get stressed by what other people think, say or do?

Do we feel that our life and our mind are being always tossed here and there, like a rudderless boat in stormy ocean? I think most of us in this contemporary world feel more or less the same...

In a world where stress, worries, fears, strain, rush and restlessness abound, inner peace is of paramount importance. It is a treasure that everyone desires, but very few know how to find and enjoy.

Almost everyday we face situations that cause stress, anxieties, worries or unhappiness. Problems, conflicts, demands, misunderstandings or emergencies often arise at work, at home or in relationships, and lead to emotional and physical strain or problems.

Often, even while being in good financial condition and in good health, people still experience anxiety, unhappiness and lack of peace. This is because inner peace and happiness come from within, and do not depend on external conditions and circumstances. You cannot always change or control your external conditions, but you can certainly bring changes into your inner world, which will in turn affect your actions, reactions and external world.

So inspite of having all possible necessities that an individual needs to spend a comfy life why are we still dissatisfied?? what is the hidden truth that can get us the peace of mind status?

If it was the time of the sanyasis and the saints the answer would have been pretty simple... but we are in a very different world all together!!!!

To my dearest frnd.......

All though this world has tied your wishes with the rope,
in this situation also dont loose hope.
This is a stormy night but a sunny day will come soon,
And in this stormy night .take courage from the lovely moon.

If you lacka good advisor,you yourself give and take advice,
And in every sad situation be happy and rejoice.
If you want somebody to care and love,make him inside you,
and live with each other in a hopeful view.

At present work hard and encourage your soul,
and make a hardworkin effort to reach your goal.
others are jobless and can only oppose,
you have to reach the heights and then only pose..

for somedays close your ears and open your minds,
and work hard towards the goals you find.
Don't give ears to other's silly say,
And always wait for your your flourishing dream day...

An experience to remember !!!!

Wat an experience it was to invigilate charted accountant candidates today in my college.. :)
Well the institute of charted accountants of india have hired mmy college classrooms to conduct their examinations as the rooms are empty because of vacation going on..

So we seniors being jobless at home anyways were asked to invigilate the exam halls and they were paying us a good decent amount of money which is quite sufficient for us as college students to take our gal friends out for a date.. hehe

So all of us assembled today at the college and brother the registrar of my college just briefed us as wat we have to and wat not to do.. and we could see all the candidates witing and could see many tensed faces in front of all the exam halls... and those tensed faces got smiles on our faces coz i could recall the days we struggle before our exams and the people who used 2 invigilate our exams used to cooly get into the classrooms and casually hand out the question papers to us after which we get fucked for sure... and they watch used gettin screwed by the question paper..
So was expecting some such scenes whic i can witness which we as students faced when we had our degree exams...

They all were grown ups.. they looked easily late 25s and 30s.. We looked lik their younger brothers or even sons and daughters to some.. The bell rang and i had an co invigilator who happens 2 b my close frnd.. so both of us handed over the answer the sheets to them.. and i read out the instructions to them.. And they all looked as if im reading out somethin which they ve neva heard! may be coz they dint expect the invigilators to b of their children's age.. hehe may b..:)

Then two or thre were actually little young and were gud looking.... and as we had to anyways pass 3 full hours in the exam hall... so ended up checking out where they live in their hall tickets wher their adresses were given..... ;) and sadly the phone nos werent ther.. :( and afta all the formalities we notice that its just one hour that we have passed.. then the second hour we passed by just giving running commentary abt diff people who were sittin in the hall looking at their facial expressions.. and then suddenly i felt 1 f the candidate was takin advantage of our casual behaviour... so got up and stood right beside him for about ten minutes...

At 3 pm the peon got us hot tea and we just sipped it slowly in front of the tensed and worried candidates imagining them to be our college lecturers whom we hate.. hehe loved the feeling... :))
and jus 1 hour was left we kept on updating them wit the time tats left for the exam and ended up panicing them al the more.. The pleasure we got in looking at them rush through the exam was just worth cherishing.. coz we have gone thru the same pain an tension when we had our exams... so its nice to see someone in the position in which we were...

anyways have this job every alternate day this whole week.. want to have fun as much as i can and somehow get introduced to the chick ;) may be will let her copy in the exam and then carry n with the flow.. :P.....

wat is true for u,may not be for me!!!!!!

Well these days i dunno why i observe people's behaviour a lot... the ones who are my near n dear ones, the ones whom i don even kno , the ones whom i jus kno by face,wel literally whom ever i meet or see, for a change i felt lik observing n listening to wat they say and decided myself not to talk too much.. though i was a failure in doin that coz "i talk a lot!!!!"

anyways my observation wasnt a waste.. :) I find people, whoever it may be , very much self centered in their talks... That is something very natural for a human being. but i get a lot of utopian thoughts which restrict me in acceptin wat they are doing as right... i feel even im a victim of this particular syndrome.. but why?? why am i too?? why do i want to prove my point so badly when i don't even know wat the actual truth is??

I dunno if people wanna prove their point so badly coz they think thats the actual truth?? or do they talk coz they want others to kno tat they cn think too?? i find a lot of reasons for them to behave that way...
I finally realized that TRUTH in today's contemporary world is "highly subjective" in nature...

For me truth may be for example "A" for my fellow friend truth may be "B" but in actual reality truth might be "Z".. hehe wierd but true....

Our happiness is never in our hands......

I was just thinking about wat are the factors that makes us feel happy and contended and afta givin it a thought realised that our self happiness never depends on us.. It is of course something that we possess but certainly cant be acquired with our self efforts..


My happiness atleast is never in my hands... and when i thought about the whole issue and after a lot of empathy, felt hat its not true just in my case but almost in all rational human beings excluding the selfish ones.. Nobody can be happy with just him or her being wealthy or if he posseses everything that he needs.. It is very vital for the people around him to be happy too if he is gotta be happy..
According to me the feeling of happiness comes to its true effect only when it is shared with others.. Its not happiness when someone is experiencing it in isolation.

If a person attains 1st rank in his exams he feels all the more happy only when his friends and the people whom he knows acknowledges his achievement... and also the person attaining the 1st rank is not just his effort.. There are loads of other factors which are responsible for him to attain what he has.. Firstly his teacher,secondly his parents, thirdly his friends, fourthly the person who has valued his paper.. in this way his final happiness actually depends on various factors lik the above mentioned..

One cannot be happy only if just he is happy or only if his personal needs are satisfied.. For example if an individual is bestowed with all human capabilities, if he is monetarily healthy,phsically healthy wiith no problems in his personal life at all doess'nt mean he can be happy.. What if everyone else around him are casualities of the problems that life imposes??? I don't think he can be happy with only his self sucess and glory...

I now realise how important it is to be good to whoever you meet and make them feel good because without their happiness and satisfaction we cant be happy and without our good wishes to them they cant be happy.. so its a mutual give an take policy that we social beings follow that makes us so complex and unique...