How narrow minded can people get....

I always think people have evolved a lot.. if not the rural people atleast the urbanites have evolved.. but no now i realize human beings are after all human beings.. it makes no difference if he or she is an urbanite or not.. Diff only in the art of disguise can be seen otherwise both are the same when it comes to their attitude and thoughts....

Why don't people think the way which is positive when they are not sure of what the reality is... Is it that they do it wantedly by just looking at the negative way??? do we aquire any pleasure in lookin at the darker side thn the brighter??? i ve no clue..

I always find people thinkin in the most nagative way as they can even though they talk as if their minds are the broadest of all.. but the inner feeling is just the opposite..
This attitude is predominantly found in felid of relationships between a boy friend and a gal friend... between one friend n another... between a husband and a wife.. literaly in all possible relationships that people share with one another...
If the husband comes late from office the wife starts thinkin only things which are negative.. even if she doesnt completely think only the negative, that is the 1st way she wud think and then changes her attitude..
If the guy hasnt been answering his gal frnds cal n if it has been busy thn start thinkin who is he talkin to?? is he dating some1 els??
If the student comes late to class teacher thinks, he has been perinially running behind some gal or a guy an is nt at all into studies when may b the actuality would be tat the poor student would ve met with an accident...

Why arnt pple lettin positive thoughts enter the mind FIRST???? Then start think about the diff other probables?? why always negative? i dunno if the feel comfy in thinkin so... or may b they ve got habituated in thinkin so...

The best is when people start thinkin about a guy n a gal just talkin to each other as gud close friends.. oh my god their horizons are just too far when they think about the guy an the gal and their relationship... I don understand why people are so narrow minded n don't even realize wat they are doing is wrong and even if they do they are not ready to change their attitude..
Even with the improved health facilities i feel the lifespan of people would come down due to attitude lik this...

Love!!!!!

Ah finally Im in love...
Love with wat?? Im in love with my life .. n who is my life?? haha my life is my soul.. and who is in my soul?? wel its some1 about whom i care about, whom i bother about the most and finally once again whom i love.. Now let me make myself clear about wat love is...

Wat is love?? Love according to me is a feeling.. or to be more relevant to the current trend or time means an expression of a feeling that one feels .. expression regarding somethin without feelings isnt love... The contemporary world has given a very immatured meaning and ve a very bleak n narrow opinion about love... Is love only when a guy and a gal go out?? is it only wen they kiss?? is it only wen they make out?? Cant love b experienced without all these?? I think love can b felt and experienced by some1 who has'nt even come across the word "LOVE"..

Wat are the symptoms of love??
Wen you are happy all the time,wen u think of oly the gud,wen u look at only the positive side of every aspect of life and u don even know tat there exits a negative side...

Am i right about wateva i said about love??
I have always heard people sayin "love hurts" "love is painful" etc. etc. but y am i nt feeling so?? i may question myself that im happy may be coz my love life is a sucessful one?? i have an answer for it.. no i have no such expectation from anythin in this life.. so wen i have no expectation from life itself why will i expect something from my love??
And i have heard some1 tellin me or rather askin me few blunt questions about love.. " wat to do??" "so wat if its love??" " so wat if both lik each other now??" My goodness those questions were so damn realistic n true.. thats wen i actually started thinkin about wat love is n now i have a very optimistic n a reasonable idea about it...
Those questions echoed for a very long time. i wud say even now.. yeah its still echoing..

Actually im very badly confused about the whole idealogy "LOVE" (once called it a feeling now calling an ideology) When is someone in love? wen he thinks only about one particular person? or only wen he thinks only about a thing?
Its very confusing...
And the most confusing part is...
Wats happening to me? why am i getting so matured and thinkin so much?? Is it coz im in love too?? but how is it possible???
None of us in this world know head n ttail of wat love is n hw can we be in love?? For some1 love is obsession, for some attraction, for some attachment.. and for me?? ... hahaha.. i dunno.. im turning way tooo senseless n heartless day by day..
Is it gud or bad??

It hurts....

It reeli hurts when i listen to this story of a boy and a gal who happen to be my good friends.. It goes lik this....

The guy is was a big time flirt untill the day he got to kno that gal inside out... the guy had no seriousness in his life. He was just into tapping gals, flirtin going out, n very soon starts loosing intrest in tat gal n finally ends up fighting and ending that particular relationship.. All his friends think he is the biggest flirt ever they have seen and believe in the fact that they are never gonna witness some1 lik him ever in their lifetime..

But he is no more a flirt.. i kno him really well. he has just changed a lottt.. lot is nt the word thats appropriate.. he has jus taken a 360 degree turn in his life.. he thinks all optimistic.. doesnt lech at all possible gals and i was shocked to know that he has 4got how to flirt.. he feels shy to go and talk to any random gal. i duno if he feels shy or doesnt feel comfy but he no more does whic surprises me..

The gal and the guy became reeli gud n close friends.. They used to spend a lot of time hanging arnd at all possible places.. and my friend says he has neva met a gal lik her.. The kinda explanation he gave abt her made me feel as if i was in the heaven for a while.. he might have exaggerated a bit but however it was it made even me feel gud listening to it. n surprised me making me think "do pple lik tat exist??".

And after tellin everythin 2 me he says tat she is just his friend n nothin more thn tat .. i was pretty shocked 2 hear tat sentence. coz i thot they both were goin arnd.. but no..
It took me by surprise and i felt its reeli hard to have a relationship of tat sort.. Days went by and he everyday told me wat happened tat day n he used 2 b reeli exited tellin me all that and i dint ve any othr choice but to listen... The story wasnt all that dry though.. :)

And now coming to the climax of the whole story.. Time has come for them to depart. Time has arrived for him to no longer stay close and together with her.. He is planning to soon leave the city for good. i ve no problems with tat but 1 thing tat bothers me is will he continue being lik how he is right now?? or will he get back to the way he was which i neva liked.. I dont want my best friend to change.. as the saying goes that some1 will come in our lives to influence our character and who change us for gud.. and for him, unknowingly that gal has been the source of change... which i doubt if he realized it..

So keeping all these factors in mind its very hard for me to see the shadow of that angel going off whic shined so bright on him and injected all possible positive energy into him... I hope he is able to get adapted as soon as possible to the change and is able to get over the hangover of it...
I cant see him hurt n cant see him in a pain... i want some or the other form of energy to take over n keep a check on his life and lifestyle coz i kno him very well.. he cant ve control on himself without a genuine external force acting on him even though he seems to b controlled and matured outside..

i pray to god that he is soon able to get over the pain n is able to continue the way he is and not he was... i dont want him 2 b a flirt and a person who has no concern 4 himself n others.. who is just living 4 the heck of it...

It just feels reeli great to see a transition of this sort in any person for that matter... i dont know how 2 thank that gal for standing beside him and being the agent of change in him.. may all her dreams get fulfiled .. and i feel she will get watevr she wants and urges for.. and i very strongly feel she will get wat she wants coz, i have never seen someone who is good to all and all being good to that someone ever having a miserable life History proves that.. And if someone end s up being rude and bad to her than i wudnt consider him to be a human being... People lik the would be like speck of dust to her..

Even problems will bring happiness in her and she will reach heights in whichever feild she is in..