The strength of silence!!!!

I ve slowly started realising the value of silence !!! silence nt as an action but as a weapon!!! Silence can do wonders in a person's life..

There happened an incident where i caught up wit some of my old friends for a drink and then arose a topic about football and i reeli suck at it... i ve absoluutely no clue about neither the teams nor the players and these guys wre fully submerged into a topic which im completely un familiar to.. And i neva opened my mouth .. neva uttered a word about it... but smartly kept on nodding my head but neva spoke.. and these guys took it fa granted tat i kno eveythin about it...

So then afta couple of events lik tat realised tat silence is a great weapon, and slowly i ve started feeling tat a great companion too.... silence is somethin tat gives u company even if ur left all alone... the enchanting creative thoughts, and i ve been experiencing some weird thought process takin place inside me when im silet which im usually not... now im confused about making the choice between staying silent and sacrifice all the fun when i talk or talk and ve the kind of fun i usually have and have been having throughout my life...

i have also noticed that people often get confused when someone is silent.. ofcourse im talkin about people who r smart enough to obseerve activities arnd thm and about those who are self centred and botherd only about their lives.... And its gud to have an identity lik tat when people dont reeli understand what kinda person u reeli are beneath?? is he a kind of person he looks lik or is he some1 lik he does'nt look lik haan??

And this weapon is at its best if used wen a person has gone mad yelling at u... aaah the essence of silence is at its peak at this kind of situation... u can see the anger just melting down lik butter if we can manage to control our ego jus fa a short while.. but sadly most of us are victims and badly infected by this particular element... EGO..

But i wudnt say silence is an universal weapon!!! nt at all.. conversations are very important in our lives.. esp wit sweet chicks.. :) but then this weapon even if nt universal can b used to a great extent to reach great heights in our lives..

"but i feel being silent is very difficult" how self contradicting......

Condition at the sub saharan africa.......

Well ever since i made my country profile presentation about the sub Saharan country"Sierra Leone" as an international relations assignment i have picked up a flair towards those African countries which are struggling to prosper in almost all possible Fields.. such as economic social political etc...

Though i did my presentation about Sierra Leone for the sake of my internal marks then, now all of a sudden I'm into full time digging facts and figures from various sources of information about the sub Saharan African countries.. Their profile, their history the civil wars that have taken place in the continent etc..

Its so very painful to know how the west exploits these third world countries for money and cheap labour..

I want to get educated well in this particular Field and go free the continent from its shackles of slavery and exploitation.... i know its a dream beyond to be dreamt of.. but nothing wrong in dreaming big.. that's wat my gut feeling says as of now.. but who knows.. nature is so powerful and influential that one day it may turn me too into a world level "capitalist"???? have to wait and watch.. :))

Whats peace of mind???

Why Does our mind constantly run from one thought to another, always restless, never calming down or getting still for a moment?Do worries, anxieties or fears occupy our mind, preventing inner peace and happiness? Do we always worry and get stressed by what other people think, say or do?

Do we feel that our life and our mind are being always tossed here and there, like a rudderless boat in stormy ocean? I think most of us in this contemporary world feel more or less the same...

In a world where stress, worries, fears, strain, rush and restlessness abound, inner peace is of paramount importance. It is a treasure that everyone desires, but very few know how to find and enjoy.

Almost everyday we face situations that cause stress, anxieties, worries or unhappiness. Problems, conflicts, demands, misunderstandings or emergencies often arise at work, at home or in relationships, and lead to emotional and physical strain or problems.

Often, even while being in good financial condition and in good health, people still experience anxiety, unhappiness and lack of peace. This is because inner peace and happiness come from within, and do not depend on external conditions and circumstances. You cannot always change or control your external conditions, but you can certainly bring changes into your inner world, which will in turn affect your actions, reactions and external world.

So inspite of having all possible necessities that an individual needs to spend a comfy life why are we still dissatisfied?? what is the hidden truth that can get us the peace of mind status?

If it was the time of the sanyasis and the saints the answer would have been pretty simple... but we are in a very different world all together!!!!

To my dearest frnd.......

All though this world has tied your wishes with the rope,
in this situation also dont loose hope.
This is a stormy night but a sunny day will come soon,
And in this stormy night .take courage from the lovely moon.

If you lacka good advisor,you yourself give and take advice,
And in every sad situation be happy and rejoice.
If you want somebody to care and love,make him inside you,
and live with each other in a hopeful view.

At present work hard and encourage your soul,
and make a hardworkin effort to reach your goal.
others are jobless and can only oppose,
you have to reach the heights and then only pose..

for somedays close your ears and open your minds,
and work hard towards the goals you find.
Don't give ears to other's silly say,
And always wait for your your flourishing dream day...