Amazing liars....

Well, such a tough question to answer when someone asks " Do you have any siblings?" Not because it is easy to say i don't have but i have to tell the same when i know i had one.

When someone asks me the question, a plethora of thoughts and emotions go through me which really makes me think twice if to say yes or no. Yes because i feel he is feel somewhere around and no because i know i cant prove it to others that he is around except for myself.

I met a new person today who asked me if i have siblings, and i say "no i do not" even though i wish i could say - "Yes- i do have a sibling who is doing really well in life. And the next statement i hear is " oh wow, single child haan, great you must be all pampered isnt it?? "

All said and done, how will people know if i had one or have one untill i tell them isnt it., So i realized, there are two lives running parallel to each other.. A) life for yourself you live and B) life that you need to live for others and fortunately i' m ok living with both of them. :)

Good night blogger. :)

Value of the lost....

Many of us have this strange tendency to realize the worth of a certain thing once it has perished or once it is no longer under our control.

The days i wake up late is when i have realized the most as to how beautiful the morning would have been and what i missed, as for all i know that morning is never going to return- I Realize the value of early mornings.

The days i loose my temper is when i realize how much better the day could have been had i not lost my cool and just stayed calm- I realize the value of staying cool headed.

The days i do not get my food on time is when i realize how important timely food is, for my health and hunger.

Similarly, there are certain people whom i have lost today and have realized their values only after loosing them and never before that. Unfortunately, i do get a chance to witness a morning again where i can wake up early and i do get a chance to stay cool and ensure i do not loose my temper and well i can always ensure i can have my lunch on time and somehow hedge that uncertainty by having a heavy breakfast.

But, how do i bring back the people whom i have lost by taking them for granted?? Are all of us fortunate enough to get someone back into our lives whom we have lost?

I always thought the person whom i lost would always stay beside no matter what, and today when the individual is missing is when i am realizing how important it is to keep all  my near and dear ones as happy as possible and also realized how significant it is to ensure peace and happiness with whomever I transact, so that tomorrow I do not regret if in case I happen to loose them.

I have often seen occasions when a wife walks up to her husband and calls for a divorce is when he suddenly wakes up and realizes what he would probably be missing if at all such an unfortunate event takes place in his life had he been taking her for granted.

So my dear fellow readers and writers, i plead all of you to always love those in and around you and never take them for granted as for all you know wouldn't be in and around you any longer and probably will never ever be too if they aren't given the respect they deserve from your end and taken for granted.

However, if this blog has enough powers, can i ask this to please bring that person back to me??

Let me wait and wait and waaaiitttt........