wat is true for u,may not be for me!!!!!!

Well these days i dunno why i observe people's behaviour a lot... the ones who are my near n dear ones, the ones whom i don even kno , the ones whom i jus kno by face,wel literally whom ever i meet or see, for a change i felt lik observing n listening to wat they say and decided myself not to talk too much.. though i was a failure in doin that coz "i talk a lot!!!!"

anyways my observation wasnt a waste.. :) I find people, whoever it may be , very much self centered in their talks... That is something very natural for a human being. but i get a lot of utopian thoughts which restrict me in acceptin wat they are doing as right... i feel even im a victim of this particular syndrome.. but why?? why am i too?? why do i want to prove my point so badly when i don't even know wat the actual truth is??

I dunno if people wanna prove their point so badly coz they think thats the actual truth?? or do they talk coz they want others to kno tat they cn think too?? i find a lot of reasons for them to behave that way...
I finally realized that TRUTH in today's contemporary world is "highly subjective" in nature...

For me truth may be for example "A" for my fellow friend truth may be "B" but in actual reality truth might be "Z".. hehe wierd but true....

Our happiness is never in our hands......

I was just thinking about wat are the factors that makes us feel happy and contended and afta givin it a thought realised that our self happiness never depends on us.. It is of course something that we possess but certainly cant be acquired with our self efforts..


My happiness atleast is never in my hands... and when i thought about the whole issue and after a lot of empathy, felt hat its not true just in my case but almost in all rational human beings excluding the selfish ones.. Nobody can be happy with just him or her being wealthy or if he posseses everything that he needs.. It is very vital for the people around him to be happy too if he is gotta be happy..
According to me the feeling of happiness comes to its true effect only when it is shared with others.. Its not happiness when someone is experiencing it in isolation.

If a person attains 1st rank in his exams he feels all the more happy only when his friends and the people whom he knows acknowledges his achievement... and also the person attaining the 1st rank is not just his effort.. There are loads of other factors which are responsible for him to attain what he has.. Firstly his teacher,secondly his parents, thirdly his friends, fourthly the person who has valued his paper.. in this way his final happiness actually depends on various factors lik the above mentioned..

One cannot be happy only if just he is happy or only if his personal needs are satisfied.. For example if an individual is bestowed with all human capabilities, if he is monetarily healthy,phsically healthy wiith no problems in his personal life at all doess'nt mean he can be happy.. What if everyone else around him are casualities of the problems that life imposes??? I don't think he can be happy with only his self sucess and glory...

I now realise how important it is to be good to whoever you meet and make them feel good because without their happiness and satisfaction we cant be happy and without our good wishes to them they cant be happy.. so its a mutual give an take policy that we social beings follow that makes us so complex and unique...