We are the best actors....

Was just wondering about how well we as human beings act... which is so very natural with no reharsals or practice....

Our real character or attitude or nature nobody knows... if there s someone who knows it thats "ourselves" only we know wat we like and wat we don't not even our parents know us as much as we kno about ourselves even though i have seen people showing off when asked about themselves by sayin " oh well.. my friends know me better.. i don't know much about myself bla bla" such fakies they are...

I observed a person for 24 hrs... and this is wat i found:

1) He wakes up late in the morning with absolutely no punctuality and discipline
but
He is exactly on time when it comes to meeting his gal friend for a date which was promised... so now will i assume him to a lazy bum since he gets up late and so dis organised or should i assume him to be a punctual soul just because he is on time to meet his gal or he is on time to the place where somebody is ready to do a favour for him...

2) He is so rude as a sibling to his brothers and sisters.. never listens to what they tell him or ask him.. so not bothered about them...
but
He is such a gentleman when it comes to his friends... his friends just love him the way he is.. so caring and concerned. never says "NO" to anythin...
so here should i assume tat he is an arrogant,non responsible moron or should i assume him to be the sweetest person i ve met ever???

3)He is a such a gud son at home to his parents.. does watever he is asked to.. helps his mum in different petty tasks which he is asked to and helps out his dad with some petty official work...
but
In the class he is so very disorganized.. never completes his work on time.. ends up getting thrown out of the class for being so indisciplined...
and here should i feel he is a very punctual and an obedient person or an indisciplined crook??

These were just some instances though there are so many to quote..

So i really wonder when people say " oh u know what... he is so short tempered at times.." or " oh u can never predict his behaviour" etc.. How can we comment on someone else when we ourselves may at times be worse than that..

In a day that person plays a role of a :
1)A Son (to his father and mother whic are different)
2)A sibling
3)A student
4)A friend
5)A boy friend(whic is so diff from just a friend)
6)An enemy
7)An advisor( as if he is very perfect )
8)A sinner
9)A helper
10)A customer
11)A seller ( when he sells his ideas )
12)A manupulator( so gud at it)
13)A broker ( i don't mean a pimp ;) )

well the list goes on... and i noticed that in every other character, he is not the same.. and the best part is the receiver of a particular character never knows that he has a diff side too... even if they know, its just an assumption they make...its because peeople often do not believe someone to be very sweet as the general attitude never permits human beings to think gud and positive untill its firmly proven the otherwise...

Why arnt we universal?? why arnt we the same with al?? discrimination begins right from us.. what rights do we have to complain about the discrimination in the society as a whole??

but i feel this is how the society works and this is how human mind is moulded.... We all are after all forms of nature and nature may b wants some joy and recreation watchin us behave so different at different times..
Its so very interestin to read general human psychology..." we are indeed unique "..

Girls in today's world...

A young lady is giving directions to her new boyfriend to get to her apartment.

She says: ''You come to the front door of the apartment complex where I live and look for apartment 14A, and with your elbow push button 14A. Come inside and you'll find the elevator on the right. With your elbow hit 14.
When you get out of the elevator you'll find my apartment on the left. With your elbow, hit my doorbell and I'll open the door for you''

The boyfriend says: ''Dear, that sounds very easy to find, but why am I hitting all these buttons with my elbow?''

"Oh my God!! You're not coming empty-handed, are you?'

Something which i wanted to share... heard one of my very experienced friend telling this... :P